I get asked all the time about 'How Do You Spot An Unfaithful Partner'.... well, here are the basics from our expert book!....1. white lies - Really silly small things. Like telling you they can't attend a certain event because there due at such a place. Then you find out they were lying. Forgetting they had to work late/early. The motorway was busy, but you check online and it was clear. Lying about their phone bill. If they feel they have to lie over such small things, how are they handling the big things?!
2. Looking good - a new interest in taking care of appearance, but your sex life suffers....or significantly increases! Sounds bizarre but it's very true! She starts wearing new underwear, having her hair done regularly, nails etc - all of which are a change in her usual behaviour. Same situation goes for him.... and then your sex life stops. Or on the other hand it hugely increases. Sometimes if you're partners having an affair to have a break from reality, they come home remarkably refreshed.
3. Paranoia - As in their own paranoia about you. People being unfaithful often detract the limelight from themselves and try focusing it on you. How many times do you watch Jeremy Kyle and someone wants a lie detector on their partner, but the cheater is the one throwing the insults and accusations?!
4. Phones and Emails - would they prefer to eat their mobile phone rather than let you near it? Do they text 10000 times a day? Or are glued to their email? Unless they're the CEO of one MAJOR national company, it's unlikely they need to be on the phone that much....and if they do, they would probably have an assistant!
5. Something too good to be true, generally is.
6. If it doesn't add up, it proably doesn't
7. Gut Instinct - If it's telling you something, flaming listen!
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